Love shouldn’t hurt

We are Oasis Domestic Abuse Service, a charity, supporting adults and children in Kent and Medway to live free from control, violence and fear.

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I need help for myself

I’m worried about someone

I want to make a referral

Injury time starts after the match. Help us show domestic abuse the red card.

Domestic abuse services we provide

Not sure what you need? Send us an email or give us a call.

Prefer to speak to us in person?

Get confidential advice from a range of professionals in one place at one time. You can speak with us, as well as legal services, housing, benefits and family support.

We are Oasis Domestic Abuse Service

For over 30 years, we’ve been supporting adults and children affected by domestic abuse. For too many people in our community, love isn’t safe, empowering, kind, supportive, respectful, joyful or healthy and that’s why we exist.

We wish we didn’t, but so long as abusers keep controlling, diminishing, manipulating, isolating, humiliating and hurting those they are supposed to love, we will be here to offer a listening ear, advice, encouragement, advocacy and safety to those who need us in Kent and Medway.

Trust your gut

Do you know about Clare’s Law?

It’s a disclosure scheme which gives you the right to ask the police if your partner, your ex, or the person you recently started seeing has an abusive past which is recorded.